1. Mary Anne and Phil were born in the same year, just three months apart. My mom’s dad rushed my grandmom to the hospital in anticipation of the arrival of their new child, and at the time they did not know if Mary Anne would be a girl or a boy. My grandmom said that she was excited to have her first girl after having one son already. I think that it is really fascinating to think about my parents being born. My uncle Bill does not remember when my mom was born because he was only 15 months old.
2. My dad, Phil, was born on the morning of April 30. He was the first son in his family; his parents had four older daughters. Debby, my dad’s oldest sister, was ten years old when my dad was born. She was so excited to hold him for the first time. Debby, along with her three other sisters, were really looking forward to having a baby brother. My aunt Cheri, who is the middle child, says that she loved having a younger sister and a younger brother.
3. Phil remembers growing up and becoming a lifeguard at Gardenville Swim Club. Mary Anne was a member of the swim club, and it is the place where she and my dad first met. My dad says that the first time he saw my mom he knew that they would end up together. My mom remembers standing with her friends one day at the pool when my dad was trying to get up the nerve to ask her out. My mom says that she and my dad dated on and off for a while. They both dated other people but stayed good friends. She says that my dad proposed on New Year’s Eve when they were 23. My dad says that the first person they told was his parents who were living in Virginia at the time. They called my dad’s parents, and his mom says she was thrilled to hear about her son’s engagement.
4. Mary Anne went with her mother to shop for her wedding dress. She found the perfect one at Gamberdella’s, which is a bridal salon in Towson, Maryland. My grandmom loved shopping for the dress and was extremely excited about the wedding because this was her first child to get married and her oldest daughter to get married.
5. My mom grew up going to church at St. Anthony of Padua Church, and that is where she married my dad. My mom says that they had a full Catholic mass. Her maid of honor was her best friend that she grew up being close with because they lived across the street from each other. They did not go to school together but they remained close friends as they grew up. Susie, my dad’s sister, remembers taking her daughter Janet and niece Katie to get their flower girl dresses measured. My mom had a friend of hers make the flower girl dresses. Janet remembers having fun doing all of the flower girl activities. She was really nervous to walk down the aisle in front of everyone in the church but liked having her cousin Katie there next to her.
6. My dad says the air conditioning turned off right when the wedding was starting because it was on a timer. My mom says that my dad asked how long she was going to drag the mass out, but my dad says, laughing, that he never made that comment during the wedding. Harvey, my dad’s brother-in-law, videotaped the wedding. Jane, my mom’s youngest sister, was nineteen years old when her big sister got married. She liked being a part of the wedding but was really sad that her sister would be leaving the house.
7. Mary Anne and Phil left right from the reception at The Overlea to go to the airport. My mom says that when they got on the plane, my father’s brother-in-law coincidentally was going to Bermuda on business. He was on the same flight as they were. My dad says that he knew about this but that my mom was shocked and had to keep pinching herself to see if it was real. My uncle laughs every time he tells this story. The three of them flew together to Bermuda, and my mom sat in between her new husband and brother-in-law.